I know exactly how you feel on that. And I agree. I’m the same way.
But I can’t hold these ladies to that. I just can’t.
I have to compartmentalize that aspect of them, but because of circumstances between us, I love them despite significant disagreement on politics. I see all of their facebook posts, and I must effort to restrain myself from commenting to them, because I could thrash them so thoroughly. But all that would result in that is losing two people who helped to bring pure, shining happiness into my life followed by the most exquisite pain I have ever felt in my life, which I am still feeling right now, because death happened yesterday.
Thing is I believe Jesus sends people and animals into one’s as He sees fit. There are no coincidences. I was meant to know them for a specific purpose, and that purpose may not yet be finished.
I have never discussed politics with them, I have no opinion on politics as far as they are concerned. I am one of the unengaged.
My sympathies for whatever your loss was.