One analogy might be to those old-fashioned theater marquee lights:
If you look at it, at first it seems like the blacked areas are moving: in fact, it is the activity of the lights that makes it seem so.
The lit-up lights in the marquee are the electrons, the unlit lights are the holes.
When waiting to make a left turn at an intersection, we don’t really look at oncoming cars so much as the approaching ‘hole’. When the hole is crossing the intersection, we make the left turn !