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Study: Unattractive Men Not Viewed As ‘Dating Material,’ No Matter How Great Their Personality
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| 11-21-2017
| Daniel Steingold
Posted on 11/23/2017 9:28:05 AM PST by blam
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To: 9YearLurker
Do you have any idea how many men have cherished specific women, just begging for the opportunity to care for them for life, and been rebuffed?That may or may not be necessary, but it sure generally is not sufficient.I would agree with the notion that one-way longing for a woman is likely quite common, although I am less sure anyone has a count, particularly a count where we know how sincere this cherishing is. Knowing one's own heart is a tricky thing and when put to the test one may find the woman a man thinks they cherish is not really the person that woman really is. It may be something about her that is in the perception.
Also I have the notion that it is quite common that women will be deceived by men who proclaim such feelings and do not follow through with them. And thus it is not surprising that they may often err on the side of caution and tragically miss-out one someone who would be true.
Of the men that deceive women, some may be deceived themselves to some extent or another as to how sincere their feelings would lead to being true if given the chance. Others may be cold hearted manipulators. And some may be somewhere in between--men who if they were honest with themselves would not obsess over the particular woman--who love a fantasy picture life with her rather than the real person.
To: 9YearLurker
Upon reflection I think my last response missed a key point though. Women don't just crave the willingness of a man to take care of her, they also require the ability of the man to do so.
Also seems I left the "take care of" as a bit equivocal. What I have in mind is in the context of biological strategies programmed into the natural mate-choosing side of the female brain. A man whom she perceives will stay and take care of her and their children. Who protects them from dangers. Provides resources. And so forth.
Of course females also desire men that have good traits of health and intelligence etc...but that of course is correlated with the man's ability to care for her. Also wealth and power within the social structure are also correlated with it.
There is more going on in the equation--there is the far less just and ethical reproduction strategies that are built into the brains of both genders. A woman might be tempted into betraying the man taking care of her and her children for a fling with a man whose physical or mental traits impresses her. And obviously there are men who would be tempted to go along with her in this behind his back.
But within the bounds of just and ethical behavior, the critical thing is finding a someone where you can be true to each other.
To: blam
Simply put, men viewed as unattractive were not viewed as potential suitors, no matter the level of other redeeming qualities that accompanied their photos. Duh!
There was no mention of their annual income!!
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posted on
11/28/2017 2:42:59 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: blam
Ya wanna be in pictures; ya say?
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posted on
11/28/2017 2:44:44 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: SMGFan
It looks like MONEY was on the minds of a LOT of folks!
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posted on
11/28/2017 2:46:29 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: AlaskaErik
Me; too.
But perhaps that comes with being the only.
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posted on
11/28/2017 2:47:03 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: exDemMom
I seen LOTS of fugly guys that have the attractive women hanging on their arms!
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posted on
11/28/2017 2:48:04 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: gov_bean_ counter
Incest isn’t so bad; as long as you keep it in the family.
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posted on
11/28/2017 2:51:03 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: alexander_busek
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posted on
11/28/2017 2:55:49 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: COBOL2Java
That is an old photo. Not as old as Henry. But old!
To: aquila48
Well; iff’n ya want Throat Cancer!
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posted on
11/28/2017 3:06:59 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: yefragetuwrabrumuy
Proverbs 31:30
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
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posted on
11/28/2017 3:08:20 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: sparklite2
She don’t want no man no how.
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posted on
11/28/2017 3:11:32 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: sparklite2; Lazamataz
Uh... Laz???
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posted on
11/28/2017 3:12:15 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: bgill
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posted on
11/28/2017 3:12:50 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: sparklite2
156
posted on
11/28/2017 3:14:35 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: Pollster1
When you ask people to judge from pictures, attractiveness will be the deciding factor, unlike real life.The advertising game has known this; like; forever!
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posted on
11/28/2017 3:18:50 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
To: Elsie
Proverbs 18:22
He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.
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posted on
11/28/2017 3:21:57 AM PST
by
Elsie
(Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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