Please define what you men by becoming like men.
Men and women are different, and I think a lot of women have thought that success in the workplace requires that they adopt the aggressiveness, competitiveness, etc., that we have generally associated with the masculine. Many have decided to ‘ape’ the male approach to sexuality, as well.
When I was growing up, women never swore - it would be embarrassing to be heard using foul language. Now I encounter a lot of women who ‘swear like sailors’ in the workplace; I guess they think it gives them some aura of power.
I don’t think any of this has made women happy.