From what I have seen, women think they can change men. Turn them into whatever it is they want. Without respecting who they really are at the moment.
I don’t see men thinking this way though.
I don’t see men wanting to change women, either. But I do think that people in general tend to want someone who will ‘make them happy’.
Nobody can ‘make’ anybody happy. Men and women have to make themselves happy. You love somebody for themselves, not what they can do for you.