[metmom]

My son is married and my daughters are not. Yet.

However, I think it’s a far richer playing field for guys.

I know an awful lot of young single Christian girls who are quite good catches and they far outnumber the number of guys who are good catches, ones with integrity.

[JamesP81]

I know an awful lot of young single Christian girls who are quite good catches and they far outnumber the number of guys who are good catches, ones with integrity.

My experience is that this is horse sh*t, top to bottom. For two reasons.

1) The good Christian girls you refer to will have nothing to do with the young men you refer to. Most talk a good game about finding someone stable with good morals, but all that talk is ultimately just talk; the actions of those saying such things don't match their words. If they did, the whole "good women marrying loser men" wouldn't be a cliche.

2) When I was dating, I dated many different kinds of women. The sad and unyielding truth is that the most well adjusted, emotionally healthy, sensible women I dated were, uniformly, unbelievers. Christian girls were the worst in terms of their proclivity towards demanding the world and offering nothing in return, then becoming self righteous when the demands were refused. This should not be so, but it is, bigly. The only thing that stopped me from giving up on Christian ladies was the simple fact that the bible comes right and says not to be unequally yoked. There is no reason beyond that.

I am sorry if this came off as offensive. That was not my intent. Just telling it like it is.