Because most men now at age 22 are still children. They have been given their freedom (license?), society has few expectations of them, and little responsibility.
Very true! I see there are some people here (with the exception of the bitter divorced guys who’ve come out of the bushes) with common sense. Pajama Boys don’t even want to marry other pajama boys!
The young men an women of today have been trained by the adults in their lives to behave the way they do.
It is all home and school training.