I blame the WOMEN!
Why? So many give away their bodies freely, even on first meeting.
Why should a man marry when he can have all the sex he wants and needs (and more) with zero commitment? And enjoy variety at no cost or obligation?
Women are reaping what they’ve sowed. They were sold a bill of goods with the concept of free/no obligation sex and they are now griping about the results.
And for a man, sex outside of marriage doesn’t have the restraints of sex in marriage: in marriage - if she’s not in the mood - forget it. You ain’t getting any.
In marriage, for the sex to be good and frequent, a man has to LOVE HIS WIFE in every way conceivable. And most men have no idea what that means. Thoughtfulness, consideration, self-sacrifice, affection, tenderness, and more than anything, a willingness to LISTEN whenever she wants to talk - without trying to FIX things. A wife spells LOVE from her husband with one word: LISTEN.
Love in marriage is very costly for a man.
Why should a man pay that price when all the sex he wants is out there for free?
Women - face it. IT’S YOUR OWN FAULT.
What is so amazing is that so many smart women are totally blind to the truth that I stated........
Single women often sleep with men on the first date (whether they want to or not) because they think it will hold the man. It doesn’t but they keep trying. Sad.
This woman agrees with you.