my husband made a rule, which in the long run was the best thing for us even if there were times I wanted to do other things. you have to spend some time alone together, even if you are doing nothing. it’s difficult to make love to someone maybe you don’t feel close to anymore. if you aren’t communicating, then you don’t know - maybe he feels the same and neither can bridge the gap. my husbands rule is we have to go spend about 20-30 minutes or so just the 2 of us no distractions, (on every non whoopee day). don’t have to discuss anything of importance or at all. sometimes spending that time reminiscing would make you feel close again. marriage is 2 people struggling through life together, one is strong when the other is weak and sometimes the roles reverse. forgiveness is the greatest thing, forgiving each others faults, and we all have plenty. Be Kind to your spouse. God Bless.
I've tried to do something similar with my wife, but I never made it a rule. I think I'm about to.