I have two sons, both now married.
Back in the day, my consistent advice was:
On a date, first or otherwise, but hopefully before you have disclosed the location of the man cave, when she mentions her meds:
1) Act interested.
2) Start 300 second countdown.
3) At 295 seconds, excuse yourself to go to the bathroom.
4) Exit via the window.
5) Go home directly, take your name off the mailbox.
6) Call the phone company and get your line blocked until the number can be changed.
7) Don’t go out in the same neighborhood for three, or better, six months.
This advice was put together before social media existed. Any updating from you younger Dads would be appreciated.
A friend of mine told me years ago. go to his house after you know him, excuse yourself and go to bathroom and look through medicine cabinet and on your way back, look in bedroom for scripts.
OK, obviously no smokes but the link, for sure.