If two military units go to battle, the losers do not tell the winners how they want to be treated.
There is a good example where the losers repeatedly try to dictate the terms of their loss and see it as a victory - the PLOstinians.
They have lost every war since 1917 and yet, today, the losers and their sympathizers are trying to tell Israel what to do and how to capitulate.
What? I didn’t write that.