It is disastrous when mothers say this. My mother did and the result, besides aborted siblings, is one permanently incarcerated (for being an abusive pedophile), one dead (froze on street) and the last one (me) who tried to kill herself at 14 and never had children so what happened to me would never be repeated and who also felt...unloveable. To feel that way is a special kind of hell.
I have found my way to the Lord, thank God, though it took me over 50 years....
May God shower His blessings and love on you.
I'm so sorry to hear your story. Mine was similar in that my mother, a disturbed and depressed individual, probably should never have gotten married, let alone have children. She destroyed my brothers.
I try to be grateful that she at least gave me life. Religion helped to make it meaningful. Maybe it was just as well that my family was secular; otherwise, given our dynamics, I would have become hostile toward religion.
I can't help wondering if many of these SJW types grew up with kooky mothers. Instead, everyone blames the fathers.