You’ve named the reality - not the song or the joke. Good for you jsanders.
That’s a true story. I bet he’s dead by now. I could probably find his obituary and post it. The guy was never right in the head and everybody said it was because of his mother. You give a guy a girl’s name and you’re going to put someone through a lot of pain because all throughout their whole life. It says everything you need to know about the mother.