Really? I knew I wanted to touch girls at 12 but wasn’t allowed :), but I had NO IDEA what a lesbian was.
I had no idea what a lesbian was at age 12 either.
I don’t know if I was too sheltered, but I didn’t even know what oral sex was until I was an adult.
Pornography is so explicit and widespread nowadays. That’s certainly part of this.
In my day, Playboy didn’t even show “full frontal”. Certain parts were strategically hidden. And there were no depictions of actual sexual activity with a man in such magazines back then. Nowadays, every conceivable sex act is out on the internet. Kids today are growing up in a very differnet world.