I’ve been groped. Very nasty, very upsetting, even damaging. But it did not destroy the rest of my life although I believe I was upset as most girls.
Take a poll. I’ll bet most women have been groped.
At what age were you groped? It makes a difference. An adult can reconcile it with themselves because they are mature. Not so for a young girl.
Of course most women have been groped. In my mother’s era, women carried hat pins on the subway to stick in a man’s hand. I carried pepper spray. I had many unwanted sexual advances and survived. Girls and young women must reconcile themselves to this, arm themselves, and stay tough. No talking to transgenders and other freaks. That is Lesson #1.
Rape is a totally different thing. That, indeed, can destroy a life.