They come from a variety of names, groups, and Heidi and Ted too. It is insulting to read them.
Often they start with “Ted has asked me to contact you” or “why haven't we received your donation”
Yeah, the fake personal appeals and attempts at shaming are so unbelievably off-putting, I have no idea why he uses them. I think maybe he just assumes that everyone is susceptible to tactics that are similar to peer pressure from your pastor to pony up your tithe. I’m sure it works on some people, but many evangelicals quit big-money churches and join small community fellowships because of sleazy stuff like this. That’s exactly what my family did.