The Dating Struggles Of Being An Alpha Female

The Bolde ^ | October 12, 2015 | Andrea Wesley

[C19fan]

eing an alpha female is, for the most part, pretty awesome. I know this because I am one. We’re wildly independent, ferociously driven and we favor passion over tender romanticizing. We’re also incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men. This makes our dating lives more of a challenge to navigate. We’re not your typical submissive and doting partners, we’re a challenge. For this reason, finding a man who can handle and understand the traits we carry is much harder. These are the real struggles of being an alpha female in the dating world.

[qam1]

Long faced and flat chested,

She ain’t no Alpha Female.

No Alpha male would want her (especially with her personality)

[Fundamentally Fair]

We are not your typical submissive and doting partners, we are a challenge.

This lady is sadly mistaken if she thinks submission is typical of most wives.

[Mollypitcher1]

You got a laugh out of me. FWIW, I don’t have an issue with alpha females. I enjoy the hell out of them.
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Obviously, you are no wimp of a guy. What do you enjoy the most about alpha women?

[Little Bill]

I am Old and frequent places that distribute booze on occasion. I was once asked by a woman to look at her face rather than her well displayed Bosoms. I replied that if you want your face to be looked at don't display what men want to look at.

After this happened on several occasions, remember I am old, I generally ask the offended displayer of well formed flesh, what would you do if this civilization collapsed and we returned to the traditions of the past?

I had my DNA done and I was gifted the Viking Gene, I1A, I M253, I ponder what my ancestors would have done in similar situations when we entered, uninvited, into England in 1066.

I suspect she would be walking bow legged for a few days.

[TheRightGuy]

i’ve tamed several of them in my time ... getting there is half the fun

[Mollypitcher1]

Andrea,dear. I like fierce and independent women myself. However,there is a sometimes very fine line between fierce and independent and being a pushy overbearing pain in the a$$
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How right you are. Frankly, I don’t think Andrea is an independent woman at allas she too closely follows the idiocy of rejecting sense and reason in order to earn her “label.”. I think she needs the support of her “sorority sisters.”
Strong, independent minded women are an entirely different breed than Andrea.

[bjorn14]

She is a 4ty-whiners fan that’s a deal breaker for me.

[Mollypitcher1]

This woman is getting alpha female and bitch confused.
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Exactly!

[5th MEB]

Precious huh; my response to my wife has always just been “YES DEAR”.
I am going to try “PRECIOUS”, it just might be worth another cold beer.
Thanks.

[Bloody Sam Roberts]

I was once asked by a woman to look at her face rather than her well displayed Bosoms.

I always love the snarky retort they'll hit you with sometimes;

"What the hell are you looking at?"

I respond, "Madam/Miss, I am looking at exactly what it is you want ALL the guys to be looking at. Otherwise you wouldn't be putting it on display."

[Mollypitcher1]

I don’t see her as an alpha female. I see her as a conceited, not too smart, spoiled brat!

[KC_Conspirator]

Finny, from Post #64? You are calling that a 7 or an 8? Oh noes!

[Little Bill]

Sam, I call that advertising.

In my youth I noticed that young women displayed the most amount of flesh during the hunt for a genetic match,

For example: Look at the Smoking Hot Women who have fat ugly girl friends, you see that every day. This bespeaks, you this rather than that?

Women do not understand that men have genetic profile of the perfect match, and generally screw up.

What do women have beside be side skin and a desire or an upscale life style at someones else expense. I am being very cynical.

[Fawn]

What a stupid article...no one fits into any molds...we’re all unique.

[Fawn]

Anyone can get a husband if they want one....lol

[Little Bill]

The secret is keeping one.

[redgolum]

I have seen women just like her figure that out about age 35.

They often become very bitter and angry. The fact that she is writing makes me think she has noticed that the time frame in which she can “trade by her looks” is getting short.

[Fawn]

That’s easy...but is it worth it? Usually not. Unless of course, he’s not too fat, is not hard to look at, cooks, cleans, can still left heavy things or can and does fix stuff. If he turned into a lazy beer drinking slob...then the woman can easily find a mate that’s worthwhile if she chooses. It’s easier though to just get a dog.

[mjp]

For this reason, finding a man who can handle and understand the traits we carry is much harder.

1. We have smart mouths. We’re wildly sarcastic about nearly everything and anything we can make light of

If you want to be happier and improve your relationships, cut out sarcasm since sarcasm is actually hostility disguised as humor. Despite smiling outwardly, most people who receive sarcastic comments feel put down and usually think the sarcastic person is a jerk.

[riri]

Looks like Celine Dion.