>>You don’t know these folks,
Do you know them?
No, I don’t know them. I do know 14 year-old boys though, having been one myself and having raised nine of them. Each one was vastly singular and dangerously stupid in different ways. I thank God that they all lived—personally, I take no credit.
Obviously, you have all your children under lock-and-key at all times, and I’ll not condemn you for that either. I’m pretty sure that these folks didn’t tell their boys to go to the Bahamas on their own. If they did, then I would have another response, but for now, I can only pray that the family is comforted in this time of loss.