There are many Louie Giglio videos on YouTube, as he is pastor of a large church in Atlanta. A video that covers more of the previous link is How Great Is Our God.
Another source that points to our being alone in the universe is The Privileged Planet. The book The Privileged Planet, was written in 2004 by Guillermo Gonzalez and Jay Richards.
Freedom of choice is inherent in how God designed us. You can believe the evidence that He provides for us, that we are a unique creation, created in His image, His ONLY childern, or not. In the end, all anyone can do is present you with facts that confirm the Bible. You have the free will to believe, or not.
But isn’t that arguing from an example of exactly one? We have exactly one example of life, us. To take this one example and then say, ‘obviously all life everywhere could only exist as it does here’ seems flawed.
Likewise the argument that there absolutely must be other life elsewhere just because there is an example of exactly one here seems flawed to me too.
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