“My pet peeve: improper use of “that” instead of “who”. Example:
He was the man that robbed the store.”
Again FWIW, this explains it the way I learned it 35+ years ago....
It is entirely acceptable to write either the man that wanted to talk to you, or the man who wanted to talk to you (3). [emphasis added] - See more at: http://www.quickanddirtytips.com/education/grammar/who-versus-that#sthash.PJOO46YJ.dpuf
Source:
http://www.quickanddirtytips.com/education/grammar/who-versus-that
which pretty much confirms what I was saying.