Sorry, I was in Alaska on August 3.
I get your point and for sure men lie too. My complaint is, and it is based on painful experience, that “the system”, meaning judges, lawyers, guardian ad litems, pshchologists and so on have a built in from the jump bias in favor of the woman every time.
Surprisingly, California may have moved toward redressing this issue. I know this based upon my son’s ongoing grief with his X. It seems California has a statute barring any presumption of who’s the better parent based on gender.
As for her telling the truth, you know more about that than I do.
Sorry about your son’s experience with the court system.
I don’t know about the law in CA, but, in my state, there’s no bias in favor of one gender over another, even though many men say there is.
However, unfortunately, the law does not penalize the spouse who committed a wrong (cheated, lied, etc.). So, there are men ordered to make support payments to exes who cheated on them during the marriage. It’s not right.
OTOH, I’ve been coming across many women ordered to make support payments to their abusive and/or cheating ex-husbands. IMHO, the whole system needs to be reformed.
In this murder case, though, this police officer proved to be dangerous. His ex-wife was right. He proved her right when he killed her.