Not condoning what this guy did, but the anger generated by these situations should never be underestimated. My brother’s marriage of 17 years was destroyed by his wife cheating on him a few years ago. They have 3 sons. While he was/is still furious with his ex, he realizes that she is still the mother of his children and the children need/love her.
But when my brother talks about the guy that slept with his wife a dark cloud goes comes over his expression. I know he thinks about killing that guy. He still talks about it. As time goes by I grow less worried about it, but I still would not be shocked to get a phone call from the police...I tell him to think about his boys that need him.
I’d be lying if I said I didnt wish horrible things on his *unt ex-wife though.
Sorry, I know this thread is a month old. But I was just reading this story somewhere else.
And I wanted to point out to both of you that this particular crime was not at all about a father being denied custody rights.
In this divorce, this guy was accused not only of being violent (which I’d guess you wouldn’t believe, anyway), but he cheated on his wife while she was fighting cancer, and then he left to move in with his mistress.
So, he’s the bad guy. He always was the bad guy. She complained to the court that he was a bad guy. And he proved her right.
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