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Make it harder for them to “score”.

Exactly. My Dad had the talk with me when I was about 14. Don't remember all of it, but the gist was the mere sight of a girl's private parts once you were past puberty would turn the normal male brain into oatmeal. Then he gave me some very solid reasons why I shouldn't let that happen until you were with a woman you completely trusted and were ready to spend the rest of your life with.

I have the girl version of that talk to all of my daughters. It worked as well on them as my father's version did on me.

...until you were with a woman you completely trusted and were ready to spend the rest of your life with....

That goes along with the results of the media exploiting girls. Women have, to a large extent, devalued their minds and bodies. They hold the holy grail as far as young men are concerned, why do young girls give it away?

My wife is old fashioned lady, and she didn't want to have the sex talk with our daughter. So mom sent her to me. Se was about 10 or 11 at the time, and she had heard about it at school. I was prepared, I had found a horrible video of a woman in labor. The woman was in labor for over 36 hours and had all kinds of complications. She couldn't get any pain meds, she threw up a few times in between all the cussing and screaming like a stuck pig. They even had to do an episiotomy. The woman in the video looked like she was being tortured the whole time. So when my daughter asked me about sex the first thing we talked about was that if she had sex she could get pregnant, and I showed her the video of that woman in labor. My daughter was pail after watching the video and wanted to know if labor was always that bad, of course I said that sometimes it much worst. I then answered all of her other questions about sex. She for some strange reason didn't want to have sex after our little talk, and didn't have get pregnant until she got married.