Also, know another in Phenix City, Alabama who is big into sports. However, whoever marries her better be ready for a whole first string of football players. She is a BIG woman and I don't mean fat. VERY Godly woman who is constantly involved in matters of the church AND goes on mission trips to Africa. Age on her is 28.
The redhead is tiny and big into outdoors (she works for Federal Agriculture Dept.) and the other, well, she's a BIG, solid woman working in Human Resources in the health industry who can help build a log cabin, literally. Both are VERY faithful Christians and will not put up with any worldly guy shenanigans. These are NOT liberal, leftist women. However, VERY hard to gain their attention due to the lack of devotion to God and attitude of men these days (Godly women have the SAME problem with men).
These men were raised by women who did not grow up with good fathers in the home.
There are some strong women who can raise a son up with no help to be a man.
But most of these women themselves have never known what a good man is.
why buy the COW when the MILK is FREE.......
My first marriage ended in divorce. I was deployed for seven months (USMC) and when I got back she was four months pregnant. I asked her best friend who the father was and she said, “Oh God. It could be anybody!”
My current marriage has lasted 26 years so far. At one point my mother was at odds with my wife and I had to tell her “Don’t make me chose between you and my wife because you will lose.” A few years after that one of my brothers was expressing his dissatisfaction of my choice in a rather disrespectful way. I told him that I’d hate to have to kick his ass and he straightened up. Since then my wife is now the favorite daughter-in-law. We’ve had our problems but we work through them. Giving up is too easy. I guess my wife is correct when she tells me I am stubborn and hard-headed.
It’s interesting what Wild Bill For America says about Ukranian women versus American women.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8S3FjXbRLQ4
Given my son's travels outside of the country and across the USA, he's kind of skeptical of most women. I'd say he's learned caution at a young age and I am perfectly happy with that.
>>‘Ultimately, men know there’s a good chance they’ll lose their friends, their respect, their space, their sex life, their money and — if it all goes wrong — their family<<
Winner winner, chicken dinner!
I come at this from a slightly different approach — Since the 70s and 80s men have been taught to feel bad/guilty about themselves for being taller, faster, stronger etc by the feminist movement (which are all liberal, pro infanticide, and pro lesbian — If you doubt this, just look at what the “feminist” movement does to conservative women) and for the most part they have succeed in making a lot of softer men feel that way about themselves which has left these “pajama boys” very confused about their role as men because any aggressiveness that they used to have is gone. They are living longer with their parents, staying longer in college, and delaying any and most responsibility these pajama boys are so confused about who and what they are and lacking the confidence to pursue a woman — Because confidence is so foreign to them. These boys have no clue what being aggressive means. Girls are left wanting and frustrated.
And this, this is what is leaving women constantly “wanting” more and therefore any man willing show them affection, even negative affection, is a grasp at a long term commitment and these girls/women have been conditioned to “give it up” with hopes of snagging the guy, but because these guys are getting lucky so often and so easily they simply don’t have to commit — These guys that are not pajama boys, they have a name for it, it is called SPORT F’n...
In the US it’s called MGTOW and Japan I believe they are called herbivores.
Like Eve, women still take the fruit first, but men follow.
Divorce laws.
Somehow, the feminist movement has gotten the courts to think that we are still in the 18th century - where the man is THE breadwinner and a woman cannot possibly make it on her own without him.
When your wife finds another guy and feels she’s gotten just about all she’s gonna ‘get’ out of you and files for divorce, YOU are then on trial as a criminal and stripped of EVERYTHING you’ve worked for your entire life. Your ex gets half and the lawyers and court get the other half.
EVERYTHING is stacked against the husband now. Everything.
Free milk and a cow.
Yes, many young women these days are needy, whiny, demanding and emotional basket cases. Many women see men as a transaction. Get taken out to a nice dinner and a show and then dump him the next day for another guy if determined he's not wealthy or malleable enough for a long term relationship. If he is wealthy and malleable, then quickly sink their claws into him for a payday later.
Good example of this is the girlfriend of recently convicted pro football player - and gangland murderer - Aaron Hernandez. She didn't even wait for him to marry her before she had his child. At the time, she thought she was set for life. She had to know he was a monster but hey, with that $40 million NFL contract and that mansion, she couldn't have that baby with him fast enough in order to grab her half of the goodies.
She probably thought she had it made in the shade. Now's she's destined to raise a baby on her own in poverty because all that money is in the process of being transferred to lawyers and the mansion already has liens from all the lawsuits that will need to get settled.
Well that's one situation where the gamble did not pay off. But usually, it does.
Now let's take a look at the eligible men. A large number of under 30 men are perpetual adolescents who work some dead-end job (usually part time) and still hang with their buddies in their mom's basement, playing video games and behaving as though they are still in junior high. Think Adam Sandler - without the money and charm. That's your typical man today.
These are the cards on the table. Let's hope it's not too late to turn this around.
This is really sad. I’ve been married 12 years, have 3 kids,and life is great. I couldn’t imagine not being married, or my kids being raised by a single parent. Yes, I know I’m lucky and found the right partner. She is a great mom and wife. The greatest relationship advice I ever got was to only marry a woman you thought would make a good mother. Basically someone unselfish, patient, and most of all not vain. Can’t stress that enough. Too many men hook up with the “hot” chick at the bar. Million dollar body, 5 cent head. I met my wife at a book store.
Is there a direct corrolation between fewer marriages and fewer conservative women? Who would want to marry a lib?
They’re dating the wrong men.
