I was amazingly like these kids in my late teens-early 20's, and I was more to blame than they, because I was taught better, and I should have known better.
So many dumb kids haven't a clue that something as "trivial" as trivial sex, is going to have an impact on them for the rest of their lives. That's why sex is not ever, in fact, trivial.
You’re not alone in that. Many of us are very fortunate for not having had to go through this.
I agree with your comments.
Take care.