[DesertRhino]

“Here’s another theory - men have had it. Why put yourself in a situation you can’t win?”

Most men that age haven’t experienced it either. They have watched fathers raped in divorces, and heard the stories of older coworkers. But mist terrifying of all to these younger men, is talking to guys in their 40 who are still married, and are simply enduring a slow motion hell. They see those men who are dead inside, trapped with women who couldn’t care less if he is happy, and they avoid that end like the plague. And they should,,,, until American women start beginning to care about the man’s happiness.

[RinaseaofDs]

Agree completely. Men aren’t stupid, and they are adapting like any other organism would.

I have to fix your post a little:

“until American women start beginning to care about the man’s happiness.”

is what you wrote.

my take: “until American women start to care about anything else other than themselves.”

It’s the narcissism. Social media has just made it worse.

[ItsOurTimeNow]

>> trapped with women who couldn’t care less if he is happy<<

Not only that, but daring to get MAD at him for expressing his unhappiness.

[OneWingedShark]

Most men that age haven’t experienced it either. They have watched fathers raped in divorces, and heard the stories of older coworkers. But mist terrifying of all to these younger men, is talking to guys in their 40 who are still married, and are simply enduring a slow motion hell. They see those men who are dead inside, trapped with women who couldn’t care less if he is happy, and they avoid that end like the plague. And they should,,,, until American women start beginning to care about the man’s happiness.

You hit the nail on the head there — and it takes a particular kind of arrogance for one to declare that the observation of these young men is invalid because they haven't personally experienced it, which is somewhat akin to asserting that someone who always ensures that the power is turned off before doing electrical work is stupid because he's never personally been electrocuted prior to it.

There's a lot in society that's been perverted by feminism; I would posit that it's so much that in-general any particular masculine trait may at any point be dismissed/devalued and [simultaneously] failure to hold to such is reason/justification for belittling. (Just look at the amount of people calling the younger generation of males pajama boy-types, and I'll wager that most/all making that condemnation do nothing to mentor/teach real manliness to such.) — There's also a sort profit in keeping young men suppressed: learned helplessness helps ensure the superior position of the elite by making overthrowing them unthinkable.

[Uncle Miltie]

It’s all my fault, just ask my....

....Ex.