It’s important to notice that my original intention was to make people laugh with my Marvin “Gaye” pun.
I was not trying to make a political, or ethical, or personal statement about female nudity.
That said, in spite of my old age, I have never been inclined to apologize for my attraction to young beautiful women.
Nor, have I ever been inclined to apologize for being less attracted to, or not attracted to, less beautiful women or older women.
What would you have me do instead - lie?
And, yes, it is completely obvious that young beautiful women are not attracted to me, so I don’t annoy them, or bore them, or stare at them, or do anything to make them feel uncomfortable.
No... but internalizing your thoughts, especially around your wife, is probably a good idea. ;-)
I feel exactly the same way. But, even my very understanding wife doesn't like to hear much about it.