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To: Tax-chick; ArGee

Sadly, I’ve always been an optimist, which probably explains my gullibility in the current situation. I keep reminding myself, out loud, that it is not my fault, and I have no reason to feel guilty or inferior.

It’s just so hard on my soul and my self-esteem. As the days pass, it will hurt less and less. Right now, I just need to rely on my logical self to sort it all out. It will all be OK. It’s just that the process is painful.


5,529 posted on 05/22/2015 2:10:37 PM PDT by Monkey Face ( When my kids were little, they had to walk nine yards through shag carpet to change the TV channel)
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To: Monkey Face

It’s not your fault. You deserve better. You are not inferior!


5,530 posted on 05/22/2015 2:13:50 PM PDT by Tax-chick ("I'm in yer chair, beebing some buttons." ~ Kathleen)
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To: Monkey Face

Fault is the wrong word. I’m sure you did nothing to deserve what you got just as I’m sure nobody’s perfect.

Most of the blame game has a built-in wish that things could have stayed the way they were. From my perspective (distant as it is) the change is better for you, even though it hurts now.

But it isn’t about you being a lesser human being. Again, from here, it just ain’t so!


5,668 posted on 05/25/2015 4:20:34 AM PDT by ArGee (Two roads diverged in the wood and I, I took the one less traveled by, and now I am SOOOOOOOO lost.)
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