Does anyone know when/how the term, “I know, right?” originated?
It’s creepy how the first couple of times you hear something like that it takes you back; and then, insidiously, it becomes “normal”...
-JT
When the phrase I know is used in English [ ], it signifies assent and acceptance of the point of view of a conversational partner. Its a fairly confident assertion of acknowledgement, of agreement.
On the other hand, the questioning right? stuck onto the end of a sentence is a request of affirmation of an assertion and a simultaneous invitation to disagreement. Right? Dont you think so? Do you agree with me?
So when a young speaker (and Ive only heard this phrase used by speakers under the age of 25) combines the two, it seems to be a simultaneous assertion of confidence and an instant pulling back of that confidence so as not to seem too pushy. It seems to ask for a continuation of the conversation. If the interlocutors continue the conversation, it may branch into areas of disagreement, but so far they are of the same mind.