After I called the Post Office and police, the officer actually was able to contact the woman who's house payment had been snagged, and she was apparently able to stop payment on it.
I never put a piece of mail in my mail box with the flag up or down. I just don’t do it. I always take to post office.
As for packages, I pretty much track whatever I purchase online and know what days they are expected to arrive, and I watch for them. I also have a wireless remote alarm that goes off when the door to the mailbox is opened.