I’ve never been able to figure out whether men or women are more shallow.
Women judge a man primarily on his wallet. (More accurately status, which in our society is based mainly on income.)
Men judge women primarily on their appearance.
The classic example of this paradigm is of course the strip club, where sad women exploit sad men financially by pretending to be interested in them.
I mean all the guys stuffing dollar bills down skanks’ bras - they’re there for only one thing.
And no decent man takes his woman to a strip club, if he truly cares about her.