I mean all the guys stuffing dollar bills down skanks’ bras - they’re there for only one thing.
And no decent man takes his woman to a strip club, if he truly cares about her.
I’ve known a number of guys who spent a significant percentage of their income at strip clubs. Without exception they were guys who for appearance of demeanour reasons were unable to otherwise get a women to pay them any attention.
I’m sure there are guys at these places who are just jerks and users, and women who are the female equivalent.
But it’s always seemed to me likely there’s a high percentage of damaged and sad people among both the performers and audience.
But (believe it or not) I really don’t hang out in such places.