If you find the truth condescending you should fix it. It’s a simple reality, two of the primary pursuits mankind has had throughout the millennia in every culture are sticking out from the crowd and finding “proof” they’ve survive death. Notice also my pronouns were “we” and “us”, I wasn’t separating myself from these trends.
Yes dear. Whatever you say the “truth” is. It’s fine.
You are so very desperate to "understand" that the rest of us are just indulging in childish self-comfort.