Every time I read something like this, I realize how rare the court commissioner’s and guardian ad litem’s behavior were in my son’s case. The commissioner told his then-wife to get out and get a job, and to provide the court with evidence that she had applied at 10 places per week until she secured a job. Won’t go into details, but SHE has to pay HIM child support, and our son has full legal custody and primary placement of our grandson.
I’m guessing your ex daughter in law has... issues.