I truly sympathize with you.
Every time I see a story like yours (and mine, I’m a guy, btw), the common thread is that there is usually a dirty, greedy, immoral skunk in the relationship.
And they’re the ones who get how to manipulate the system and use the integrity of their soon-to-be ex against them for their own fun and profit.
Too bad you live in Wisconsin and I live in MI. We would have both been better served if our locations were reversed!
But hey, we’re free now, right? :-)
FREEDOM! :)
On the inside of the card it continued; "...the asshole's!"