I would make a sincere effort to see things differently—such as from the perspective that life should turn out according to my personal expectations and my own subjective view of morality—but I cannot think of a good reason to think life should be like this. Other than for the same reason that I think I should be able to turn straw into gold.
If you are able to think of one, please let me know. If you have the wisdom to think of such a thing, you will probably also have the mental acumen required to state it concisely.
Actually, that's exactly what you're doing. You've come to the conclusion that the universe is actually set up for your benefit.
In a solar system that is a grain of sand in a galaxy, a galaxy which itself is a grain of sand in the cosmic web of galaxies, the creator of this web of galaxies actually knows about you personally and has a plan for you. The creator of the supermassive black hole at the center of the universe, distant quasars, and quantum particles beyond our own comprehension actually sent you a human sacrifice in the middle east 2,000 years ago, and has personally offered you redemption for a simple belief.
All of this was designed with you personally (or if you're more of a universalist, our species) in mind.
This creator of the cosmic web sent YOU a holy book, written back in the Iron Age, but this book that YOU happen to believe in is different from the thousands of other holy books in that it is literally true. And based on one single thought (that Christ was a God and died for you), you personally are offered a spot in another blissful dimension where such irrelevancies as family are of no consequence.
One of us is displaying an odd mix of solipsism and wishful thinking, and it isn't me.