No wonder they’re single. They want a good girlfriend who has to shave. And who probably waxes his chest hair.
Her: Wear Yellow plaid shirts
Him: Ok dear
Her: Wear your hair that way
Him: Yes dear
Her: You need to drive that kind of car
Him: Ok, I can do that, dear
Her: Don't act that way around my friends and family
Him: Ok dear
Her: Stop drinking beer and drink wine
Him: Yes honey
Her: I'm leaving you!
Him: But why? I've done everything you've asked?
Her: You've changed!
IU do like do descend women sometimes when I'm not ascending them!
Seems to contradict other lists I’ve seen, where ignoring women makes them more desperate to have you than ever.
Really I think most want to be a beard for a gay million. .A pretty boy that give her tons of money and never wants sex...
"Furthermore, when a man and woman go out and they can barely make their way through a bar or club without the man getting hugs, rubs, waves, and winks, the man is not likely to score points with his date."
I can't help that my charisma and animal magnetism are overwhelming to the ladies.
You know, for a fat girl, you sure don’t sweat much.
not sure about the “darling”. like waitresses calling you “hon” darling could be a regional thing in the proper context.
Starting from the top of the list, it is part of the sexual biology of women that they “display” for males, in competition with other females, and men are supposed to pay attention to them, from which they can choose a suitor.
However, several things can go wrong with this process.
To start with, in adolescence, girls are compelled to display for boys, *in practice*, just to learn what gets their attention, without wanting to mate. They will often over-do with gaudy clothing and makeup, or worse, get in competition with other girls over how much skin they can expose. Today, the technology of camera-phones has led to the “selfie” in which girls can display to boys from the safety of distance; often with nudity.
Parents really need to get a handle on this.
Another way this can go really wrong is when girls have success with getting the attention of boys, and they become, for want of a better phrase, “attention whores”. They can become so indiscriminate in trying to get attention that they become *real* whores; or fall under the psychological domination of someone who acts like a pimp. It doesn’t matter if he is slapping her, or dancing with her, he is showing her attention, so in her mind, “he cares”, and feeds her addiction.
On the side of boys and men, they are also biologically compelled, as well as taught, to pay attention to the displays of girls; and to expect this to magically turn off once they are attached to a woman is expecting a lot. However, they can be *trained* to tone it down, and not to gawk at other women.
That is, when they are together, women are no longer supposed to display, and men are no longer supposed to gawk at the displays of other women.
Ideally, once men and women are in a relationship, they both get a handle on their impulses. From that point, they need to find a balance point of the amount of attention the man needs to regularly give her; and for her not to so directly associate attention with either affection or loyalty, which can be demonstrated in other ways.
Farting didn’t make the list?
Looks like I scare a Perfect 10!
Do I get a prize, or something?
They can get over that. My days of pretending I don't notice a hot chick are over. I look as I please.
I knew a guy who would go to the bar, pick out the best looking girl, and walk out with her within a half hour. His method involved talking about himself and flashing a huge wad of cash. These girls were middle to upper middle class. He looked and dressed like a 1970s used car salesman. He never failed, and he never dated them a second time.
Women are terrible judges of men.
Another one I am dismissive about. If sex isn't up there reasonably high as a priority, I don't need a relationship with that woman. Begging isn't my thing.
Chivalry....Really?
Most of these seem to indicate that the biggest turn-off to whatever woman created this list is “not being the center of attention.”
My repsonses:
1. To a point yes, but I don’t have time to stare into your pretty blue eyes all day. Things need fixed and work needs done. There is a time and place. Work hard/play hard honey. The attention thing goes both ways too. It ain’t all about me, me, me.
2. You may hate cocky braggerts (actually there are too many women that seem to LIKE that) but men don’t like conceited beeotch princesses either, so right back at ya.
3. The self-admiration things goes both ways, especially if it’s peppered with ‘like’ and ‘OMG’ and ‘totally’ and your girlfriend drama. That’s a huge turnoff and a really big one when you expect us to listen no matter what, but it only goes one way. Men also really hate hypocrites too.
4. I get the obsessed with sex thing, but at the same time not every time you hop into bed needs to be a Harlequin novel. Sometimes just banging the headboard hard and fast is fun and fulfilling and can lead to some awesome interaction as well. Mix it up a little. We men also like it when you aren’t obsessed with having sex with other men behind our backs when you get a little bored with us.
5. We hate superiority complex feminism as much as you hate chauvinism.
6. Yeah, but sharing the childrearing duties means that - sharing. Not calling it sharing while you half-ass it and drop your end of the bargain, and then get ticked if we men aren’t there for the kids just one time and act like you are going to take custody of the kids from us.
7. Yeah, and men hate the groupie boyfriends-on-the-sly ‘friends’ and exes that women keep around, claim there is nothing there, and are in bed with 2 hours after you have a big fight or break up. Cut the flippin’ strings already and make a freaking committment, for real.
8. And when we are courteous, be appreciative, and not the expectant princess. I.e, be a lady.
9. Conversely, a real man likes a woman who can get her hands dirty and doesn’t need to be done up 24/7, yet knows when she needs to get done up to and not be a slob all the time either. It’s called balance, and most women have difficulty with it.
10. Guys like sense of humor too, and not many women have it. Also, be a little kind, the guy is putting himself out there already. He may be a little lame but also have a heart of gold. And not every guy likes pickup lines either, so be a little flexible too.
Can’t please them, so why even try?
They tell you they secretly want “a man just like Dad;” but when you spank them for not doing the dishes, say they can’t have a new dress, and go to bed with their mother, they come unglued.