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Disparate impact: classrooms, comfortable places for girls, terrible places for boys
World ^ | Dec. 28, 2013 | Marvin Olasky

Posted on 01/06/2014 7:26:58 AM PST by xzins

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1 posted on 01/06/2014 7:26:58 AM PST by xzins
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Boys prefer ... Rough-and-tumble play: a lot of running around, mock fighting, usually with sound effects, and the boys tend to be very happy—but many parents and teachers have confused such play with violence. When children are violent, there’s a lot of unhappiness and they part as enemies. Violent children are usually not popular. It’s just the opposite with “rough-and-tumble” play: Children are happy and boys who are good at it will tend to be popular. They’re building critical social skills.
2 posted on 01/06/2014 7:28:16 AM PST by xzins ( Retired Army Chaplain and Proud of It! Those who truly support our troops pray for victory!)
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I just read this on World a few minutes ago and think it’s a very good read.


3 posted on 01/06/2014 7:29:10 AM PST by scripter
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Airport bookstores don’t have signs saying “Men’s magazines” or “Women’s magazines,” but we know they’re there

This was a good line. We know the differences are all around us.

4 posted on 01/06/2014 7:32:02 AM PST by xzins ( Retired Army Chaplain and Proud of It! Those who truly support our troops pray for victory!)
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On college campuses it is now an article of faith that we are all born to be bisexual

The (sane) mind boggles.

5 posted on 01/06/2014 7:32:03 AM PST by tomkat
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I think the equivalent in the corporate world in the company meeting. I’ve noticed that women (and girly men) thrive in meetings. Guys like me do whatever we can to avoid these sideshows, especially when they get to be more than about 3-5 people.


6 posted on 01/06/2014 7:32:36 AM PST by Vigilanteman (Obama: Fake black man. Fake Messiah. Fake American. How many fakes can you fit in one Zer0?)
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Before wireless laptops and smartphones, meetings were really annoying.
Then God gave us wonderful connectivity...


7 posted on 01/06/2014 7:34:36 AM PST by nascarnation (I'm hiring Jack Palladino to investigate Baraq's golf scores.)
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sideshows

Slideshows. :>)

Purposeless meeting make me cringe. I'll take a planning meeting over a "how things are going" meeting 999 times out of a 1000.

8 posted on 01/06/2014 7:34:39 AM PST by xzins ( Retired Army Chaplain and Proud of It! Those who truly support our troops pray for victory!)
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My boys definitely enjoy rough and tumble playing around. When I was married my wife would always hate it, saying her brothers never did anything like that and blah blah blah... And now... she wants me to continue teaching them self defense and how to take somebody down as quickly and as hard as possible. What changed? I don’t know, maybe she woke up.


9 posted on 01/06/2014 7:37:55 AM PST by scripter
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I'll agree than planning meetings can be quite useful . . . IF they stay on topic. That is most likely to happen if the attendance is five people or less.

I worked for a small company in Japan which had a room with a high round table and enough space for about five people to stand around.

The rules were no smoking, no food and no drink. We were generally in and out of there in 15 minutes or less.

10 posted on 01/06/2014 7:38:43 AM PST by Vigilanteman (Obama: Fake black man. Fake Messiah. Fake American. How many fakes can you fit in one Zer0?)
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This was a much safer, more civil and better country back when a popular song could have lyrics like these:

"This Is All I Ask" (Tony Bennett)

Beautiful girls,
walk a little slower when you walk by me
Lingering sunsets,
stay a little longer with the lonely sea
Children everywhere,
when you shoot at bad men, shoot at me
.
Take me to that strange,
enchanted land grown-ups seldom understand

11 posted on 01/06/2014 7:40:39 AM PST by Maceman (Just say "NO" to tyranny.)
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FWIW, I did the same thing with three girls. The lucky guys who married them know he has a sturdy partner.

And let me tell you, these sessions could get rough. I still have a bad back from three little girls piling on me and taking me down . . . but it was worth it.

12 posted on 01/06/2014 7:41:31 AM PST by Vigilanteman (Obama: Fake black man. Fake Messiah. Fake American. How many fakes can you fit in one Zer0?)
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I had a battalion commander in Korea who would call his staff meetings outside standing. They were more than 5 people — about a dozen — but they were lickety-split.

Especially in winter.

I recall some 5 minutes meetings outside in the winter. It was very easy to admit that what you’d say in a warm room wasn’t really all that necessary to say.


13 posted on 01/06/2014 7:42:32 AM PST by xzins ( Retired Army Chaplain and Proud of It! Those who truly support our troops pray for victory!)
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My 3YO grandson is a typical little boy. Fortunately, he has an 11YO uncle that can keep up with him...I can't! lol

My son's played tackle football for 4 years and is in his 3rd year of Scouting. He alone is tough enough to keep up with, but life is infinitely far more enjoyable.

14 posted on 01/06/2014 7:43:53 AM PST by Night Hides Not (For every Ted Cruz we send to DC, I can endure 2-3 "unviable" candidates that beat incumbents.)
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Years ago I worked in an outdoor job in Phoenix, Arizona. Meetings were inside in the air conditioning, and in the summer we learned to ask a lot of questions just to be able to enjoy a few more minutes out of the heat.


15 posted on 01/06/2014 7:45:25 AM PST by Jeff Chandler (Obamacare: You can't make an omelette without breaking a few eggs.)
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My grandsons play war with the neighbor kids. Their play is complete with walkie talkies, camo clothing, nerf guns, forts covered with real camo netting, etc. They work a continuing storyline that has progressed for over a year. I have warned them not to do any of this at school, where the teachers might not understand.


16 posted on 01/06/2014 7:48:37 AM PST by Jeff Chandler (Obamacare: You can't make an omelette without breaking a few eggs.)
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I hope my boys find girls like yours! I never had that when married and wish I did.

Lately I’ve been doing practice runs with the boys and at first they thought it was over the top. But after explaining certain situations and how fast things can happen, now when I say a certain key word they know where to go and what to do. When it hits the fan I told them no hesitation. You hesitate and you could cost all of us our lives. They get it now. My training has probably saved my life multiple times. Twice, at least and I hope it saves theirs someday as well.


17 posted on 01/06/2014 7:48:55 AM PST by scripter
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My battalion commander was an SOB, but we loved him. He would have moved your Arizona meeting outside in the heat. And he would have looked for a place with no shade.

:>)


18 posted on 01/06/2014 7:48:58 AM PST by xzins ( Retired Army Chaplain and Proud of It! Those who truly support our troops pray for victory!)
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When I was a kid we had 2 recesses and a lunch recess if you finished eating fast enough. We played DODGEBALL and yes, some kids got smacked. But they learned how not to have that happen. We played gang tag. Four-square (with that ball) was not pattie-cake...it was a form of war with spikes, slams, spins.

And, yes, we did the dreaded soldiers, cops, robbers, cowboys. This was pre-show and tell, so I don’t remember carrying anything to school except my lunch or books.

We made up our own games, our own guns, our own fun.

I remember when the best sled was a refrigerator box.


19 posted on 01/06/2014 7:53:52 AM PST by xzins ( Retired Army Chaplain and Proud of It! Those who truly support our troops pray for victory!)
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Not all women thrive.

After a year of listening to garbage at Historical Preservation group meetings...I announced that I would not be back, that they were dysfunctional and accomplished nothing and the commission should be abolished.

20 posted on 01/06/2014 7:54:36 AM PST by Sacajaweau
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