we are getting ready for a wedding next Sept. xshub has a conference in Maui in August that he wants me to go with him, and i am apprehensive about how much of a wreck i will be in re wedding preps to to away for a week just a few weeks before the big day.
Ah, be careful there! 8<)
Remember, it is her wedding, not yours! (Yes, take the trip - though you "do" have all the reasons and right to be concerned with the planning and preps. )
Tell her - Heck, tell him too! - that you trust them and trust them to do just fine. Then go to HI and be the good mommy we know you are and worry. 8<)
That, or send them to HI and let you do all the worrying in peace without her to distract you.
Act like the Wedding is 2 weeks earlier, until then.
Then you can enjoy yourself.
You’ve earned it.