Well, unnngh, but at least your son is okay! At his age, he should have remembered to send you more information. Of course, I didn’t learn anything about DP’s accident except a text, “We had a collision but we’re still running the race,” until 24 hours afterward, and I was still digging details out of him several days later ...
It was ... a technology problem, that’s it!
As I’ve said before, my son and I were always very close until this marriage, and he seems to have lost all desire to have any contact with me, or tries to make any contact as minimalistic as possible.
I wish I could feel “remote and removed” but I can’t. It stinks.