Or perhaps men who aren’t getting much or any sex step up to try to relieve the wives of some drudgery so she’ll have more time and energy. Decision time comes when she still says no, gets dressed in the closet, watches TV until midnight every night, and uses her new found time to go out with friends.
Or like mine farcebooking/texting all the time, then complains she is always late every where.
Luckily I stay busy coaching my boys’ teams and other man stuff, besides the 50+ hours I work a week.