Posted on 09/08/2012 9:03:55 AM PDT by Why So Serious
Here is a better way to look at this ... the government should not be in the marriage business, and marriage is not a political issue. Gay people, for the most part, express a desire to get married for the benefits that are extended to married couple [rights like Social Security benefits, child care tax credits, Family and Medical Leave to take care of loved ones, and COBRA healthcare for spouses and children]. Government should allow people to engage in civil unions [this includes men and women], only. Marriage should be left to the churches. Then, any one can have a civil union [man/lady, lady/lady, man/man, mom/son, dad/daughter, brother/sister, person/multiple people] which extends to that civil union the governmental rights that married couple now enjoy which include the marriage tax credit, right to pass assets without taxation upon death, the right to make life ending decisions [pulling the plug]. The whole issue dies in a blink. This should not have to be a political thing. Moving the line in the sand never works ... better just to erase it. I believe that my wife and I are married in GOD's eyes and believe that we have a civil union in the eyes of government. It should not be anything different then a partnership, LLC, or LP.
Render unto Caesar that which is Caesar's.
Render unto God that which is God's.
Render unto the Viking Kitties your dead rotting stinking carcass.
God, in the Garden of Eden.
So ... as we FReepers say to trolls on their departure....
Not sure what got this guy ZOT but I have argued the same thing, probably a little more fully than he did.
I once wanted to get marry but not anymore, in the so called traditional sense.
I see marriage as being assaulted every and the tenets of religion being undermined by the homosexual lobby.
My feeling is I don’t need a government to tell me I am married. That is for me and my wife to decide, as well proclaim in front of our congregation and friends.
I don’t know when the state got involved this business but it is now and undeniable racket.
Once the homosexual lobby is fully entrenched and the so called “human rights” get a old of Bed & Breakfasts or Photographers it’s time to take to the argument sideways or off the table.
If Gays want to be sanctioned by the state why should I want the same? I then and any beliefs are then subject their lobby efforts.
If we ain’t part of the game we become a separate lobby that seeks not inclusion but exclusion.
We didn’t marry under the state and if the majority of us do that it undermines their game.
Sorry, I won’t be able to respond very well today and had a hard time just posting this much.
My arm is killing me just holding it in this position to type as I recently rotator cuff surgery and this might be my only post today.
I will not participate in a system that seeks ultimately restrict what the pulpit may preach or the conscious dictate.
I will also not allow gays to use the word marriage. It has a meaning and intend for it to stay that way otherwise their relationship is just the same as any other and your beliefs are undermined by law.
LOL
I love your posts and responses.
Wish I could read through this whole ZOT but can’t due to a recent surgery.
Totally agree with your response.
Wish I could add my Dos Centavos in a cogent manner today. I do have a long dissertation somewhere in my history on this subject but, I had a surgery that is pretty much making it painful to hold my left arm in the position so I can type and really I keep having to correct my typing.
So pain and frustration are getting old and I’ve only been at this a few minutes.
If it is to be defined then it should be under the Judeo Christian definition as “A” man and “A” woman, in the singular sense.
Can’t type anymore. My arm hurts...
I want it as a simple declaration without the government.
No contract, no deduction on my 1040, Nada.
We stood before a crowd of those who love us and some who wish for our failure said “I do”.
We left on the bond of our word and had a honeymoon.
Skip the government.
Damnit. I’m tire of typing, making mistakes and this is really starting to hurt shoulder.
I probably won’t be back on for the rest of the day. Maybe tonight.
That’s correct.
Ask Jim Robinson, I cannot zot anyone...But I do respect his house and rules
My arm is killing me just holding it in this position to type as I recently rotator cuff surgery and this might be my only post today.
Get well soon
Apparently a Heath Ledger fan...
Better that than “Brokeback Mountain”, then it would have been “Why So Obvious”...
Heh.
I love to kick them when they’re down.
Sorry you had to have surgery; I haven’t been on FR much and did not know. I hope it was not serious and you recuperate fast and get back to normal.
No need to reply and if you do wait until your arm/shoulder are better!
The reason the “government” needs to be involved are two reasons:
1. The fags are pushing pushing pushing and they need to be shoved strongly back into the closet with a giant NO!!!! TWO MEN OR TWO WOMEN CANNOT GET “MARRIED”!!!! END OF STORY!!!”
2. There has always been some form of government (tribal, town, city, state, province, country, whatever) recogniztion of the legal state of marriage - for inheritence, legitimacy, protection of children, husband and wife respective rights and responsibilities, etc. If this recognition of marriage by the (whichever level) of government is trashed, it will further destroy what is left of the natural family, which is the utter foundation of human civilization.
What would happen next? Just imagine how far down into the feral sewer we are now, and then multiply it...
I am giving this a try on my Nook, which for some reason can’t figure out what I’m typing and makes work hard at posting.
Answering your post might be my last until this afternoon when I’ve spent the day icing.
To your point #1 absolutely.
To your point #2 correct again and the shortest and best rexponse I’ve seen in a while.
Thenagain I always enjoy your thoughts.
Back to my point; as they incrementally win at some point one has to look at the game and realize “The Deck is Stacked”.
For me, when I notice cheating with enough non verbal imprimture I find other people who will agree to play by one set of rules and let cheaters cheat each other.
Not quite my best response but if you carry it out, considering our previous concersations, you get the idea.
Why should I play a game where even honest thinkers refuse to give voice to their thoubhts or stick to their principles.
I hang out with a good many friends who are and have heard some.pretty rough things. Fortunately I am the #1 child from a large family. Having lived with my competitors I can take it and dish it back just as rough.
I’ve been firm in my response and said what we are saying here and that I am not changing.
I’ve even had them tell me “Now I”m offended”.
To which I have replied “Wow, that was almost an amazing response. Synthetic as it was. Now, you want your margarhita like a girl.or the way we usually drink, hangover style?”
Usually everyone laughs, probably because I stood my ground and usually make fun of the whole thing.
Even had one of these discsussions at a party that could only be described as “Gaytopia” a.couple of months ago.
I was definitely the minority and the place was a little light on the types with “hips, lips and *its” of.the kind I like.
Usually at these parties there are more gals available.
So friends yes. Them getting the word marriage as some equalizer and tool to marginalize my position?
Not gonna happen.
Go write some detailed contract if you want hook up for life.
I’m sure us hetero’s would be in better relationships if we were required to do same, which will happen they codify marriage equality into law.
I’ll go.around it if me and my gal decide that and there won’t be nothing anyone can do about it.
2-4 more weeks with this sling and pad. Feels.like I’m wearing a heat blanket at night.
Total six months to get 50% and 8-12 for 70-90%.
Good enough for me.
I’LL be in Chile at Valle Nevado this time next year heli boarding and chasing girls. For some reason the women down there are KuhRayZee bout American men. Not that I ever had problemo but, they love us.
Now if I could just convince them drnking time starts at 9pm not no 12:30 am it woukd be better for me.
Oh well, gotta play...
I’m going to Monterey for some artichockes. Fried and steamed. Yummmmmm!
Fried food is a terrific analgesiac and should make pain go away for a.few hours. Especially since.the woman who owns the Giant Artichoke is beautiful and I like talking to her in my terrible Spanish which makes her laugh.
What a smile!
I just noticed your tagline.
(There is no cure for stupidity!!!)
He’s dead, Jim.
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