That's close to a fatalist who believes everything that happens is preordained to happen and one can't change it.
There are going to be a lot of dead people in both categories (and I don't care ‘cause I can't change them beforehand and don't have enough to feed them afterward).
I will feed my extra liberal sister-in-law and her husband because they helped me so much when my husband was very ill. I love them but they are to the left of Stalin and admit it. They know I am a prepper and think I'm nuts. They live on the coast and have NO preps of any kind.
It's a given they'll be the first ones knocking on your door.
They will have to get to where you are... in a real emergency, that might not be so easy to do without a plan, firearms, and tools.
You might not have to feed them after all.
If you do, make them work for it. I don't know if you remember the old bumper sticker from hitchhiker days "Gas, grass, or @$$, no-one rides for free"
/johnny