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How Women Ruin Romance by Talking Too Much
PJ Lifestyle ^ | 7-11-2012 | Kathy Shaidle

Posted on 08/02/2012 11:33:54 AM PDT by Sir Napsalot

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To: Sir Napsalot

My personal experience, re-entering the dating game at 40, is those women who have never been married by their late 30s by and large have certain common traits.

Yes, I know you can earn your own money and live your own life, doesn’t bother me a bit, so check the womens’ lib at the door.

What I do find as a general common theme, a basic and fundamental misunderstanding of men, and completely unrealistic expectations. Frankly, most are selfish, not evil, not bad, just selfish, and in ways they don’t recognize. Its not that they don’t neccessarily appreciate someone, or like someone, or even love someone... its just there is too much “ME” in their entire thinking. Not saying ME should not be important, but if you want a relationship you have to be able to adjust that thinking to “US”... and I find most older single, never married women, aren’t able to do that easily.

I suspect this is probably true of most people (men and women) who are late 30s and never been married.... tehy are set in their ways, and never had to concern themselves with much beyond what they want.

Obviously this is a generalization based on personal experience, and not suggesting there are not exceptions to this.


21 posted on 08/02/2012 12:03:21 PM PDT by HamiltonJay
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To: DainBramage

There is a part of the male brain that has evolved to tune-out female harping. It was necessary to keep couples together for the propagation of the species.


22 posted on 08/02/2012 12:03:59 PM PDT by Buckeye McFrog
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To: Sir Napsalot

I read the accompanying article (The “Am I too critical” one). It is amazing the number of women that seem to think they should be able to be obnoxious and still land a guy.

SnakeDoc


23 posted on 08/02/2012 12:04:23 PM PDT by SnakeDoctor ("I've shot people I like more for less." -- Raylan Givens, Justified)
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To: Sir Napsalot

My personal experience, re-entering the dating game at 40, is those women who have never been married by their late 30s by and large have certain common traits.

Yes, I know you can earn your own money and live your own life, doesn’t bother me a bit, so check the womens’ lib at the door.

What I do find as a general common theme, a basic and fundamental misunderstanding of men, and completely unrealistic expectations. Frankly, most are selfish, not evil, not bad, just selfish, and in ways they don’t recognize. Its not that they don’t neccessarily appreciate someone, or like someone, or even love someone... its just there is too much “ME” in their entire thinking. Not saying ME should not be important, but if you want a relationship you have to be able to adjust that thinking to “US”... and I find most older single, never married women, aren’t able to do that easily.

I suspect this is probably true of most people (men and women) who are late 30s and never been married.... tehy are set in their ways, and never had to concern themselves with much beyond what they want.

Obviously this is a generalization based on personal experience, and not suggesting there are not exceptions to this.


24 posted on 08/02/2012 12:06:30 PM PDT by HamiltonJay
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To: null and void

the girls I’ve been with are natural disasters.

They generally talk 100mph with gusts up to 160mph.

Other times it’s like Tuesdays with Boring, all the time....

Be interested in others and do interesting things. Otherwise...BoH-Reen!


25 posted on 08/02/2012 12:06:30 PM PDT by Vendome (Don't take life so seriously, you won't live through it anyway)
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To: Sir Napsalot
I knew a woman like Claire in these text messages. Could not win no matter what...btw she is still single last I saw on her Facebook page.


26 posted on 08/02/2012 12:08:12 PM PDT by trailhkr1
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To: Sir Napsalot

I don’t hate the UN quite that much...


27 posted on 08/02/2012 12:09:18 PM PDT by null and void (Day 1290 of our ObamaVacation from reality - Heroes aren't made Frank, they're cornered...)
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To: Mr. K
“Norm, did Elaine ever own a horse?”

BTTT

28 posted on 08/02/2012 12:11:41 PM PDT by thackney (life is fragile, handle with prayer)
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To: null and void
I don’t hate the UN quite that much...

RINO!

Just kidding :)

29 posted on 08/02/2012 12:12:08 PM PDT by NeoCaveman ("If I had a son he'd look like B.O.'s lunch" - Rin Tin Tin)
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To: Mr. K

LOL


30 posted on 08/02/2012 12:12:46 PM PDT by Nervous Tick (Love the cult, respect the leader, but I simply can't drink the koolaid and die.)
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To: Sir Napsalot

I read somewhere that one of the things that women subconsciously rate men on is how much the talk. Women love chatterbox men.

Men think chatterbox men are gay.


31 posted on 08/02/2012 12:12:56 PM PDT by Born to Conserve
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To: null and void

LOL


32 posted on 08/02/2012 12:15:30 PM PDT by Vendome (Don't take life so seriously, you won't live through it anyway)
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To: Sir Napsalot

Kate of John and Kate Plus Eight is a shining example of this.


33 posted on 08/02/2012 12:16:04 PM PDT by ChocChipCookie
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To: HamiltonJay
those women who have never been married by their late 30s by and large have certain common traits. Frankly, most are selfish, not evil, not bad, just selfish, and in ways they don’t recognize. Its not that they don’t neccessarily appreciate someone, or like someone, or even love someone... its just there is too much “ME” in their entire thinking.

As you said, not just women.. I work out with a guy who is in his late 40's or early 50's, never married. You have described him to a T. He still goes through life like he is a teenager and it all about him. Knew some women who dated him..it's all about him and what he wanted to do.

34 posted on 08/02/2012 12:16:52 PM PDT by trailhkr1
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To: DainBramage

“Women talking is why God invented white noise.”

And headphones.


35 posted on 08/02/2012 12:21:09 PM PDT by ZirconEncrustedTweezers (EAT MOR CHIKIN)
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To: Sir Napsalot
My wife is under the mistaken impression that any problem, no matter how small, should be TALKED about - beaten to death - over-analyzed - and fought over. She actually expects some epiphenous breakthrough - some beam of light to come through the parting clouds - and the issue will be resolved.

That only happens in the movies.

In real life fighting over small stuff just means you spend a lot of time fighting.

36 posted on 08/02/2012 12:21:49 PM PDT by allmendream (Tea Party did not send GOP to D.C. to negotiate the terms of our surrender to socialism)
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To: Sir Napsalot

The article is about the content of the talk, not the quantity. Everyone should be polite, considerate, and circumspect.


37 posted on 08/02/2012 12:25:27 PM PDT by esquirette ("Our hearts are restless until they find rest in Thee." ~ Augustine)
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To: Sir Napsalot
When I read this thread, I think of a perfect example of a woman talking on and on and on...


38 posted on 08/02/2012 12:25:51 PM PDT by Responsibility2nd (NO LIBS. This Means Liberals and (L)libertarians! Same Thing. NO LIBS!!)
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To: Baseballguy

The noce thing about the feminist movement is that you know right away which women have no relationship skills. Women who are know it all blabber mouths vying to be like men should not be allowed near men. They have zero relationship skills and should either become lesbians or nuns.


39 posted on 08/02/2012 12:33:35 PM PDT by GilGil
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To: Mr. K

That’s hilarious!


40 posted on 08/02/2012 12:35:17 PM PDT by 12GA
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