Finally what are some of you thinking as what constitutes a friendship? Saying high at the Lowe's store or grocery store and talking for 10 minutes is not what this is all about.
No, I'm talking about picking up the phone and saying "hey, wanna go get a beer? I could use someone to talk to right about now." There are more men in my life, who have been in my life for a long time, that I can do that with than there are women.
But Gabz, that is the whole point..women can do that but men, generally, cannot. A woman can have an attractive male as a friend and not want to have sex with him and just be friends..there has to be "chemistry" with many women.
When a man sees an attractive female and they become friends, the man, again generally, would love to have sex with her if given the chance...and would jump on it(and her) if she gave the go ahead.
As a woman you have no idea the sex drive/desire we have due to testicles...
Put it this way I might as well be talking to the wall regarding discussing this with you..that is how far we don't understand each others emotions and desires due to biology.