But Gabz, that is the whole point..women can do that but men, generally, cannot. A woman can have an attractive male as a friend and not want to have sex with him and just be friends..there has to be "chemistry" with many women.
When a man sees an attractive female and they become friends, the man, again generally, would love to have sex with her if given the chance...and would jump on it(and her) if she gave the go ahead.
As a woman you have no idea the sex drive/desire we have due to testicles...
Put it this way I might as well be talking to the wall regarding discussing this with you..that is how far we don't understand each others emotions and desires due to biology.
You're right, it is like talking to a wall because I would not want a man with so little self control anywhere near me, let alone as a friend.
A woman can have an attractive male as a friend and not want to have sex with him and just be friends..there has to be “chemistry” with many women.
Ever notice how a lot of women are absolutely not interested in a guy when he’s single, but he’s suddenly fascinating when he’s in a relationship?