In a divorce, both parents are selfish. Divorce is a trainwreck for the kids.
And for Father's Day, a bit of wisdom:
"The greatest thing a father can do for his kids is to love their mother."
I agree.
The greatest thing a father can do is demonstrate his love and respect for their mother. It creates the perfect home for children because it teaches children to love and it makes the mother a very happy one.
Happiness-—Dennis Prager talks alot about the importance of happiness.
Not necessarily. Sometimes it's just one spouse who is being selfish. Sometimes one party is absolutely determined to pursue a life with drugs, alcohol, violence, other people. Sometimes mental illness or crime are involved. It's not possible for one spouse to prevent divorce if the other is determined. There are a lot of people on FR, of both sexes, who can tell you that it doesn't take two spouses to cause a divorce. Don't judge.
Divorce is a trainwreck for the kids.
Absolutely right. It's an ongoing tragedy for the children and for society. No-fault divorce laws were among the factors contributing to the huge numbers of kids being raised without a father in the home.