[GOP Poet]

I read an interesting study a while back. It basically found that men as they age want to date women as young as they can get--mainly as an ego feed. Which is more saying to themselves I can still get this. It is what it is.

Unfortunately for you men though the younger gals are often looking at you for your security. So you have your part to uphold.

There is nothing wrong with going for what you want in my opinion. You do however have to uphold what she is often looking to you for as well though and this may be why older men choose older women. (one of the many reasons as we are also more experienced in the sack and in the head and heart :-)

As someone who dated a man 12 years my senior for six years that started when I was twenty one, I can attest to the fact that his wealth and looks were factors. As soon as his belly showed up and his pocket book depleted and his chin show signs of drooping, I suddenly found men my own age interesting again. Just saying.

You also better be a good lover. Age and experience only keep a young girls interest for so long. Diamonds though are forever. haha.

[mamelukesabre]

You make me hate myself

[Secret Agent Man]

Sounds like a shallow relationship on both sides. Bail when the other ain’t up to snuff anymore.

[Salamander]

Hubby’s 18 years older than I am, just about flat broke, got a spare tire and I wouldn’t trade him for the world.

:)

[MacMattico]

You offer good advice, too!

[Sea Parrot]

I am 73 years old and been married through thick and thin to the same great gal over 51 years, she was my dream girl and always will be. When dating and thought I was pursuing her, she later confided the hunter had been the hunted right up to saying, I do. So I would be the worlds worst to be offering courting advice, for I didn’t, and still don’t, have a clue when it comes to that game.