[Seizethecarp]

Don't know about 800 number, but the author of the book “Stop Walking On Eggshells” behind this site is excellent in my experience.

http://www.bpdcentral.com/bks/swoe.php

IMO, this book is one of the most perfectly targeted book on any subject that I have ever read...because it described my ex-wife and mother of my children and their twisted relationship perfectly!

There is excellent self-help advice in the book...beginning with SAVE YOURSELF FIRST!

[KJC1]

I agree, BPD Central is the best website for those coping with loved ones who have this unbearable disorder.

And to the OP here, if there is any danger that the Borderline person in your life is a threat to him/herself or others, please call 911.

I know first hand about their psychotic breaks.

Good luck and prayers to you and your afflicted loved one.

[Mariner]

"SAVE YOURSELF FIRST! "

Yep, get out at all costs. As soon as possible.

If you have kids get them out of there unless you want them to be monsters too. It's passes from generation to generation.

[mel]

wow, thanks i am going to get that
thanks
melissa