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1 posted on 07/23/2011 10:13:48 AM PDT by Immerito
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Precisely. My retort to the parents of unruly children is, “Children should never try to raise children. Are your parents available to help you?”


2 posted on 07/23/2011 10:18:58 AM PDT by Louis Foxwell (This IS my blog site.)
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How DARE you! By questioning their handling of SnowFlake, you are threatening them! You probably voted against Our Towering Socialist Loving Warlord! Racist!


4 posted on 07/23/2011 10:27:23 AM PDT by jonascord (The Drug War Rapes the Constitution.)
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When they scream and wail, I mind. Otherwise, I don’t care.


5 posted on 07/23/2011 10:27:42 AM PDT by yup2394871293
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I don't even want to THINK about what would have happened to me if I, as a child, had "hit (my) mother in the face with an open hand."

As conservatives, I am guessing that is beyond the comprehension of any of us.

6 posted on 07/23/2011 10:28:38 AM PDT by truthkeeper (Vote Against Barack Obama in 2012!)
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I don’t know which is worse, parents who can’t/won’t control their children or people who bring their pets into grocery stores and restaurants.

I consider both groups of people, pigs.


7 posted on 07/23/2011 10:30:51 AM PDT by Psycho_Bunny (Public employee unions are the barbarian hordes of our time.)
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Editor's note: LZ Granderson writes a weekly column for CNN.com. He has just been named Journalist of the Year by the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association.

LZ enjoying some downtime on the streets of the Castro.

but yeah, there sure is a lot of poor impulse control around

8 posted on 07/23/2011 10:32:08 AM PDT by martin_fierro (< |:)~)
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Children are wonderful but they are not the center of the universe. The sooner their parents make them understand that, the better off we all will be.

bears repeating

9 posted on 07/23/2011 10:34:22 AM PDT by ZinGirl
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I don't know what's worse, the howling kids in the cart or the mom in slippers and p.j. bottoms ignoring them.
10 posted on 07/23/2011 10:36:50 AM PDT by ladyvet ( I would rather have Incitatus then the asses that are in congress today.)
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Bit of anti “breeder” in this story.

But point is valid. Some kids need less time out and more belt on butt.

Parents try to be friends with their kids rather than parents. Look at the 40 year old moms wrapped up in Twilight. Grow the heck up.


12 posted on 07/23/2011 10:39:22 AM PDT by TigerClaws
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"LZ Granderson...has just been named Journalist of the Year by the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association. He is...a 2010 nominee and the 2009 winner of the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation award for online journalism."

Ol' LZ is really racking up the prestigous awards, isn't he, for writing violence provoking crap such as this:

" And the reason why we're staring at you every other bite is not because we're acknowledging some sort of mutual understanding that kids will be kids but rather we want to kill you for letting your brat ruin our dinner."

14 posted on 07/23/2011 10:41:54 AM PDT by 2nd Bn, 11th Mar (The "p" in Democrat stands for patriotism.)
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LZ says... "Spanking is not a cure, and should not be the first resort, but I don't think it should automatically be taken off the table when dealing with small kids."

So LZ is for spanking, just not in public? So spanking is 'child abuse' according to liberals, but they expect 'the look' to imply in public what parents have a duty to do in private?

Most child-haters I have encountered are seniors who ooze their hatred for them even when they are well-behaved. Such as when you show up at the pool with them in tow -- they haven't done anything and already they're puffing and grunting and rolling their eyes, as though their good time is spoiled (and they're going to let you know!). And I'm sure most never raised children, and went on to live the life of a narcissist.

To them my sentiment is, 'relax, they'll be paying your social security in a few years'.

15 posted on 07/23/2011 10:42:29 AM PDT by zipper
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I’m a cashier at a LARGE grocery/gen merchandise store (I won’t name it) and a mother was letting her child run amok. I had been standing there 6 hours already and over one hundren customers later watching this kid scream and throw fits. I finally got frustrated and asked the mother if she wanted a “plastic” bag for the kid. She got the meaning and glared at me while I smiled back at her. True story.

I’m surprised I didn’t get fired.


16 posted on 07/23/2011 10:44:16 AM PDT by mardi59 (T)
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I agree with the author. It’s never good to have to deal with brats or their brat parents.


19 posted on 07/23/2011 10:50:02 AM PDT by freekitty (Give me back my conservative vote; then find me a real conservative to vote for)
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I have four kids. We were always too embarrassed to stay in the public place when our kids acted up. I never understood why other parents stayed..


20 posted on 07/23/2011 10:50:36 AM PDT by cardinal4 (Sun-Tzu/Atilla 2012)
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One of my favorite subjects

Having raised six children, I can tell you this generation pretty much have ruined their children.

I didn't need to have the "look" or to clear my "throat" or even speak a word to get my children to behave in public.

After they were trained on how to behave in public, my wife and I fully expected them to behave. If they did misbehave it was dealt with at home later or in a private place and rarely happened again because it was clearly explained to them the "board of education" would teach them how to behave.

Today I will without hesitation tell a parent to get their simian under control or I will do it for them.

Yeah, I get looks of horror that I would embarrass them in front of their friends or family but they normally fix the problem

27 posted on 07/23/2011 11:02:01 AM PDT by Popman (Obama. First Marxist to turn a five year Marxist plan into a 4 year administration.)
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This relates to the “buddyfication” of parenting that is all around us.
Children are now the buddies of parents and are constantly being told “good job,buddy”.
There are no standards for what is an actual good job,yes I know it raises self esteem, but it has produced a generation of people who feel entitled even when they do a mediocre job at best.


29 posted on 07/23/2011 11:05:22 AM PDT by COUNTrecount (Barry...above his poi grade.)
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When you see an unattended child, give them an espresso and a puppy. That’l learn the parents.


35 posted on 07/23/2011 11:20:22 AM PDT by Boiling point (Cain / Palin 2012)
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Just came from Target where a 6-7 year old was kicking the back heel of his dad as he pushed the shopping cart. All he would say was “stop that” or he would try avoiding the kicks that followed.


36 posted on 07/23/2011 11:21:25 AM PDT by eaglestar
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I'm against child abuse. Parent abuse for an unruly child? Yeah. I could live with that. When I hear one across the grocery store, I usually ask in a 2 to 3 aisle wide voice, “ Want me to whip their ass for you.” Sometimes does the trick. Guess what? Spare the rod spoil the child really, really does work and it puts the fear of God in them to boot. Before I resorted to that, I would get on my knees or pick up my child so we were nose to nose and I told them I was not going to allow that type of behavior and if they did it again, they could expect a spanking right then and there. After 2 or 3 times, they got the message, have not been scarred for life and the last spanking was when one was..nine and the other six (both girls). I spanked them together for fighting and after the spanking, made them apologize and hug each other. Yeah. I know. Every expert says don't spank and never spank together. The experts are the reasons we have parents and grandparents that were never spanked and we are in the shape we are in because of experts. So keep your opinion to yourself. I am a conservative which according to popular public opinion, I am a racist, sexist, bigot homophobe. And I'm a redneck so there's no dealing with me. Don't waste your time typing.
37 posted on 07/23/2011 11:34:46 AM PDT by cashless (Unlike Obama and his supporters, I'd rather be a TEA BAGGER thaln a TEA BAGGEE.)
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I agree with nearly everything the author says in here...especially this

And we know you don't discipline them at home because you don't possess "the look." If you had "the look," you wouldn't need to say "sit down" a thousand times.

That's NOTHING but the plain truth. One look from either of my parents was more than enough for me and my brothers and sisters to pipe down. we KNEW there would be consequences...and they could involve my father's belt! Not something we looked forward to!

39 posted on 07/23/2011 11:45:20 AM PDT by pgkdan (Time for a Cain Mutiny!)
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